Water Walking Weather



Its that time of the early morning that is still counted as night.  The general population rests easy in their beds, yet one group of men are afloat in the midst of the sea.  Having grown up in and around the fisherman's trade,  they were seasoned seamen.  As the cool wind began to sweep across the waves,  the need to reach the shore became more pressing;  a storm was coming.  It was not that long ago that they had seen Jesus command the wind and waves into submission, but he was nowhere to be found.  Or so it seemed.  The ship was tossed back and forth by the boisterous waves, and the wind was contrary.  In our mind's eye we see Peter shouting instructions.  "Every man to his station!" Until something caught his eye.  "Peter,  what are you....?"  As every eye turned toward a mysterious figure approaching the boat.  No,  they had never seen anything like this before, and these disciples no older than the average high schooler,  cried out in fear.

When Jesus identified himself, Peter called out, " Lord if it's you,  bid me come to you on the water." And Jesus said, "Come." While his focus stayed on Jesus,  he defied nature's law.  But when his sight shifted, he was once again in need of rescuing.  Jesus saved him,  rebuked his limited faith,  and when he was come into the ship,  the wind ceased.

You probably have heard the story or even read the Matthew 14 account for yourself.  As we review these passages,  we discover truths that are identifiable within the character of each of us.  This account of Peter shows us that even the greatest of storms are nothing more than water walking weather.

1.  Fear:  You Will Always See What You Search For.
The Bible lists two types of fear.  That which we have in reverence and honor for the Lord, and fear that is folly to motivated action.  Had the disciples feared God more than the unsettling image in front of them,  they each might have stepped out on the water.  But before they had the opportunity to identify God in their storm,  they cried out afraid of what they did not truly recognize.  You will always find what you are looking for.  If you are searching for God, you will find Him.  If you are searching for problems,  you will always find them.

2.  Christians Will Question What They Cannot Conceive.
It does not make sense that a man would be walking on the water. And even if he could, he wouldn't in this weather!  So how do I know that this voice calling out claiming to be Jesus really is?  What if it's all part of my imagination?  Peter's response confirms his doubt yet commands faith as he makes a bold, daring request.  "Lord if it's really you, then tell me to come out there!"  Why was there even a question?  Could anyone else have accomplished this great feat?  But because of the perplexing nature of this encounter,  rather than pursue, Peter would rather provoke.  What if believers spent more time minding the commissions of Christ rather than questioning his credentials.  "...IF it's you..."

3.  Our Walk Should Always Center On The Word.
If I were Peter, I would have wanted an encouraging, maybe even coaxing speech.  Yet Jesus simply said, "Come."  Within that word, we find God's will for each of our lives.  Not to labor in all of the specifics and minute details, but simply to walk toward the Lord. Alfred Tennison said it best, "Ours is not to question why.  Ours is but to do or die."  "Come."  It wasn't an eloquent speech, nor did it explain how the feat would be accomplished...it didn't need to.  Even one word from God is more stable on life's sea than a thousand fellow-ships filled with men.

4. Worry About The Waves Will Wreck A Walk On The Word.
If you find yourself sinking in a sea of doubt and sin,  it is undoubtedly because you have allowed the waves about you to seem larger than the word that called you.  So long as Peter's focus was fixed,  no wave could have toppled him. But as his focus shifted to the storm,  the sea all but swallowed him up.  No wave of worry, pride, or even personality can sink a life that is fixated and faithful to the Word of God.

5.  At Times We Must Forsake Fellow-Ship To Follow. 
Jesus rescued Peter from drawing, and walked him back to the boat where stood awe-struck men.  Before we mock Peter for near-drowning,  we must not neglect 11 others who stood doubting.  Better to be rescued walk stepping out in faith than stagnant in a boat with fellow stalemates.  Many will never experience the greatness God has intended for them because they are worried about losing "fellowSHIP" with family, friends, even churches that refuse to support them.  Friend,  you may feel alone as you step over the side of that boat, but don't look back.  If you fall, Jesus is standing right there to pick you up.

6.  Fellow-Ship With The Lord Always Leads To Worship.
My great grandpa used to cleverly define "fellowship" as nothing more than two fellows in one ship.  11 men stood helpless in fellowship as Peter experienced faith like they never would.  Peter knew he had to face his fear and develop a fellowship with the master rather than stay in the boat with his fellows.  When Jesus and Peter were come into the ship, the wind ceased.  The reason there is turmoil about your ship, is because Jesus is not part of the fellowship. Peter's faith allowed the others cause to worship.  The storm in your life could be an opportunity to bring Jesus into the lives of others.

In your life,  is there something around you that you don't quite understand?  Does it cause your spirit to be unsettled as you cry out in fear?  Have you stopped to consider if it is the Lord? 

 Jesus always identifies himself, but our fear of the unknown can cause us to question him, and even count it as a righteous check.  One word from Jesus should elicit action and instill faith.  And even when you fail, He is there to pick you back up again.  

Who do you fear most?  The fellows in your ship,  or the Master of the Wind?  Could this storm be nothing more than water-walking weather?  You choose.  Walk on a word or get wiped by the waves.   Take that step!  Do something crazy!  Then, watch God use your walk to lead others to worship him.  

Five R's Every Youth Leader Needs To Know



So you're working in youth ministry now, and you feel unequipped or inadequate? Welcome to the club! Just a few years ago I felt like I had so much to offer, but no idea how to do it! My idea of youth ministry was greatly impacted by the "youth group" I grew up in, which pretty much consisted of me, my best friend Matt, and the kids we filtered in for activities from the youth groups we wished we were part of. Our youth "leaders" were good at a few things: 1. Buying us food. 2. Telling us how immature and irresponsible we were. 3. Reminding us that they were the youth leaders. 4. Creating lame activities like "prim" that was little more than an amish alternative to "prom." 5. Regurgitating the stuff they had heard as teens..."back in my day."

Stepping into my first pastoral position with little more than 5 committed middle schoolers was scary, because I didn't know what to do! Stewarding their lives was of course a heavy weight of responsibility, but balancing that with engaging material and excitement seemed near impossible. But, as I opened the pages of Scripture, God walked me through some tough lessons in youth ministry that made those years some of the most rewarding and educational years to date. Here are a few tips that helped me grow a youth group from 5 to 60 and counting, but more than that - be an effective minister of the gospel.



1. Be Relatable
Paul said he was made all things to all men that he might be all means save some. So from the King James, let's translate this into "youthenese." To the nerd became I as the nerd. To the jock became I as the jock. To the musician became I as the musician...etc.

Stop talking about how youth ministry used to be; because it's not that way anymore. Culture shifts daily which requires study and discernment on your part in order to effectively relate to it. Don't misinterpret that as being "of" the world. But you must be like Jesus, and meet people where they are.

Minecraft parties. I never thought I'd be a gamer...and I'm still not. But I can build redstone railroad with the best of them! Why? Because I could fill a basement with 20 middle schoolers who came to hang with the youth pastor, and inadvertently get some unsolicited counsel, and even hear the gospel. Yes, even my Minecraft world had a church in it!

Football Games. Be there! That's where all the teens hang out...and even better, their parents! The cheer section has the jocks, and they're easy enough to win over. But behind the bleachers, next to the fence is where bands of 8-10 roam the grounds. Engage them! Soon, like me, you'll have 32 kids calling your cell phone from the front gate saying "Pastor, can you come be my chaperone into the game?!" Hook. Line. & Sinker! Guess who they'll tell their parents was at the game and helped them get in?

School Functions. Band Concerts. Plays. Lunch. Each of these are crazy worlds in which various species of teenagers live. Invade these territories and capture the hearts of the citizens. Make time for them. Be at all of them. You'll be amazed....

2. Be Rational
Here's a common situation: Kid gets a bad grade. They tell their parents who immediately freak out and ground them from something. Kid comes to youth pastor seeking comfort. You cannot be the devil's advocate, but you cannot be the freak-out parent either! Listen to what the teen has to say, and point them in the right direction. Many parents lose their teens because they won't LISTEN. If you'll listen, you will win their heart. Every time.


3. Be Real

As a youth pastor, I was a person too. I have a past. God works in my present. I struggle with sin. When I'm real about my journey with Christ, suddenly admitting humanity becomes OK. " If pastor Jon struggles, I can too!" No, you don't need to brag on your sin and bring all your skeletons out in the open. Just be real about what God has and is doing in your life.


4. Be Ready
This could mean so many things! Even after I felt pretty "seasoned" my small group of just high school guys made me realize just how unprepared I was at times! Teens have a way of throwing those awkward questions your way. Be ready. Teens are learning life the hard way many times. This might involve 3AM pick ups, or 5AM phone calls of panic. Be ready. Students are watching you, and processing things inside. At the most random time, they will be prepared to accept Christ and open up their heart to the gospel. Be ready. Expect the unexpected.


5. Be Recruiting

- Recruit Students

If not utilized as the church of today, they will not be here tomorrow. Allow students the freedom to minister effectively by recruiting them to be leaders. Engage them with Scripture. Equip them with the tools. Empower them to lead. Encourage them along the way! Trust them! Stop trying to TELL them everything and start SHOWING them some things! Disciple students!

- Recruit Parents

Parents are the wonderful people that live with those teenagers every day of the week, apart from the few hours you are with them. Recruit parents for insight into those kids lives. Even if they don't have the best parenting style, you can disciple them without them ever realizing what you're doing! Make them a part of your team, and develop not just a teen exclusive ministry, but a family ministry. A Church. Let the parents know you have a united front, pointing kids to their authority.


- Recruit Pastors

In my first church I became all consumed with student ministry. I poured my heart and soul into it, and reaped the benefits. Unfortunately, I left my pastor behind, not knowing he had never been taught those things. As the youth group grew, the church continued to die, and at one time, over half of the Sunday attendance was teens! Parents started coming to Wednesday night FUEL for Bible teaching and counseling, because that is where they felt valued and utilized. --- Invest in your pastor! Involve your pastor! In my second church, I transitioned the culture of student ministry to that of a "connexus group" that liberated parents and pastors to invest in the lives of students. After all, they're part of the CHURCH! As pastors discipled students, it generated a "oneness" in the church that assisted in its growth. You need your pastor, and your pastor needs you.